Monday got a little busy . . . . Here goes round 2. I'm limiting these posts to a max of 10 questions, so it looks like there are a few that will spill into tomorrow.
My question is a little selfish. Since becoming a mom I feel like I lack the ability to make goals for myself. My big goal was always to get married and have kids. Now I am married and have kids and realize I forgot an after goal. So, what are some goals you have for your future? (Tamra - clogging queen)
Good question. I think many LDS moms have that same realization. I guess my goals now include things like getting my boys on missions and having Anna get married in the temple. While those are choices that they will make for themselves, I work now to teach them and raise them up with those goals in sight.
I think for me, as a mom, most of my goals now are short term ones. Things like organization, making sure to carve out play-time with my kids, etc. I have also really enjoyed Ali Edwards' one-word approach. At the beginning of the year choose just one word that highlights something you want to focus on or improve on and keep that word in your mind throughout the year. Last year my word was Play -- I wanted to be more playful, open to people & experiences, laugh more with my kids, etc.. This year it was Organize -- we moved into a new house and there were a lot of things I wanted/needed to get under control (still working on that one, though).
I think this is a good approach -- it's low-stress, it's short-term, something you can easily keep in the front of your mind. And yet it is a great way to work on "you" and improve yourself bit by bit each day.
Where do you get your creative ideas for lessons? Book reference, pure inspiration or a little of both?! (Marie - makes an amazing chicken pasta salad)
Well, thanks for thinking my lessons are "creative." :) My first reference is always LDS.org. I peruse through the conference talks as I gather my thoughts on the topic and "hope" for a light-bulb to go on. And I guess I kinda approach writing a talk or lesson like writing a college paper: come up with an intro that is engaging & fresh, then supporting ideas, and a conclusion that ties it all together. Sometimes it works, other times it's enhhh. I also *hope* for the inspiration to come along the way to steer me in the right direction.
In my current calling as Primary chorister there are a couple websites that I am just loooving for inspiration and ideas. Sugardoodle and Julie's Singing Time. Check 'em out.
If you weren't a mom . . . . what would your ideal job/profession be? (Jodi - with an avocado in the oven)
Honestly, the very thought of having to go out into the work force makes me a little ill! {The nervous kind of sick.} I've never been a job/career minded kind of gal. Even in college I had no goals or plans in that direction. Thankfully we have been blessed enough to allow me to stay at home.
But if I had to pick . . . . . okay, I've been thinking about this for a looooong time and I can't come up with anything! Totally lame, I know. Scott has asked me once or twice if I'd want to go to work after the kids leave home and I tell him, "heck no!" So there you have it - that's me.
What is your favorite game to play with a group? (Tiffini - goat herder)
Ooooo, so many choices! I always have a hard time picking just one. Taboo -- I love the fun energy and the shouting that inevitably comes as you're trying to get your point across. I did Apples to Apples just once with a group and it was a total hoot -- lots of good laughs. And Bunco for the socialization factor.
Did you ever have any regrets about going to college so young? (Lisa - energizer bunny)
No. It was a good experience. Maybe you'll have to ask my parents if they regret sending me there so soon! :)
What was your impression of the first time you were around all the Brown boys at one time? (Lisa - energizer bunny / sister-in-law)
The first time I met the whole Brown family (minus Kevin - he was still on his mission) Scott and I had driven up to Twin Falls late one night after his shift at the MTC. It was late so we just said hi and went to bed. The next morning I remember everyone converging on the green leather sectional in the basement, all in our pajamas, and talking. The conversation consisted mostly of the boys talking, laughing, quoting movies, and quoting even more movies, and inside jokes and whole lot of stuff I had no clue about. I remember thinking, "wow, they really have a good time together." And also thinking it was a bit odd that I was never let in on any of the jokes - that they just carried on with their party like I wasn't even there. Just feeling a bit out of the loop. But that's okay. I still don't get all of their inside jokes. And they still have a good time together.
Do you wish you had a sister? (Lisa - energizer bunny)
Sometimes. Especially when I see other sisters that have a close bond. Being able to share the adventures of growing up, college, dating, marriage, and motherhood together.
What is your favorite line of make-up and skin care products? (Shannon - great photographer)
I'm a grocery store make-up kind of girl. Usually it's Maybelline. I have a few Mary Kay items (lipstick, eyeliner, concealer) and Clinique (eyeliner, lip gloss). For skin care I have liked and used Mary Kay TimeWise in the past. But I'm currently using AcneFree to get my breakouts under control. It's nice that I was able to go through my teen years without experiencing all that. I'm just wondering why it had to hit me now!
What is your favorite thing about being a mom? (Becca - not expecting)
Just having these munchkins who absolutely love you more than anyone else in the world. That's pretty awesome. And I love watching them grow, learn new things, love to hear the funny things they say, squish their cheeks, the list goes on and on . . . .
Do you have any regrets in life? (Nicole - one fit chick)
Not really. Maybe a few choices I wish I had done differently. Maybe could have been nicer to my parents & brothers growing up. Sorry Sam for making fun of you with the fanny pack. :) But for me, I don't really dwell on the past. I don't sit around wondering, "if only . . . " I hope this doesn't sound too weird, but I'm pretty good at forgiving myself -- don't let guilt bog me down. Life is too short. Scott has a good quote: "Feel, deal, and heal."
{at my birthday Bunco - using a really big knife to cut into the Coldstone ice cream cake. Be very afraid.}