find joy in the journey

spring break // day 4

Today we dyed Easter eggs.  I started setting things up in the kitchen when I realized - hello?! - the weather is gorgeous and we have a table outside.  So we moved the party to the backyard.  We used Kool-Aid to dye our eggs and I really liked the way the colors turned out.  (Mix a packet of Kool-Aid with 2/3 cup of water.  No vinegar needed!)

Today we stayed home and didn't worry about brushing our hair or matching our clothes.

Today I started painting the kitchen/dining area.  Primer and 1 coat of ceiling paint complete.  So far in this house I have painted 4 bedrooms, 1 bathroom, a family room, and now the kitchen.  Just wait 'til you see what I have planned!

Today Scott and I went to Lowe's for painting supplies and some lighting upgrades.  We took separate carts so we could divide and conquer.  Of course, I ended up wandering around in the garden section and he had to text to find me.  I picked up a few lovely annuals and can't wait to plant them in my big pot.  The colors and softness just makes me so happy.

spring break // day 3

It's time for an activity that gets us outdoors!

We spent the day checking out Bonnie Springs Ranch -- an old west town and petting zoo in Red Rock Canyon.  We watched a hanging, pet some goats & deer that nibbled on each of our t-shirts, rode a train, and purchased cold sarsaparilla from the saloon.

There are many more photos, but I'll share some of them in another post.

It was our special day out so on the way home we went to Red Robin for dessert.  The kids ordered milkshakes and I got the Mile High Mud Pie.  The last time I ate this dessert was on a girls' night out.  It's the kind of dessert that is meant to be shared so I invited the kids to help me finish it.

I don't know what it was but we are all exhausted by the time we got home.  I announced that I was going up to my room to lay on my bed and watch The Princess Bride and anyone was welcome to join me.  Anna took me up on the offer.

Can I just tell you that I am loving 7 right now?  Well, most of the time.  She is so sweet and loving and talkative and creative and fun.  I just find myself smiling and so happy that am blessed with the experience of having a daughter.  Coming from a family of all boys (and marrying into a family of all boys) I figured my family would also be all boys.  I hoped for a girl, but didn't set my heart on it.  

I am so glad that I got her.

Later . . . we ate leftovers for dinner.  The kids watched Star Wars Episode 5.  And Scott came home late (9-ish) after a work event.  We tucked the kids into bed and had a nice couple's evening discussing plans, what-ifs, dreams, and somedays.

spring break // day 2

Day 2 and we were going, going, going.

What I love about these school breaks is that we finally have the time to do the baking, outings, and playing that we just don't have time for during the school week.  And if it seems like we are running like crazy and doing SO much this spring break . . . it's because I know that during our next break (summer) it will be just too hot to do a lot of things so we have to squeeze it in now!

Today we needed to bake.  Oh my, I found the cutest idea for spring cupcakes over at Our Best Bites and we copied their cuteness in it's entirety -- right down to the packaging!

Everyone was assigned a job - crush oreos, color the coconut, make carrots (from Starburst!)

and paint egg cartons

 Then we set up a nice assembly nice -- Anna frosted the mini cupcakes and the boys decorated.

Anna: "It's like we are a cupcake shop!"

This is where the cuteness reaches epic proportions -- mini spring cupcakes packaged in an egg carton!

You can't look at this and not smile.

Then we hopped into the van and drove around delivering these little cuties to a few people from church (visiting teaching friends, primary teachers . . . ).

And because we did not get in enough bouncing at the trampoline center yesterday, we made our way to an indoor bounce activity center.  (Really, I just had another groupon we needed to use).

Everyone had a great time and got very, very sweaty.  And Anna may have peed her pants, just a little.  They were all in desperate need of showers when we got home.

The sister missionaries joined us for dinner.  We had sweet and sour chicken (click on the link for the recipe - so so so good!), rice, fruit salad, broccoli, and fortune cookies.

Later, around 7pm, the kids jumped on the trampoline.  They love going out for an early evening jump.  But we usually have to go out there and end it when the noise level gets out of control.  Both of our neighbors are retired and I'm not sure they appreciate the commotion!

spring break // day 1

After a long morning of cleaning (I always torture my kids like that on the first day of a school break), we finally made it out of the house for our first experience at an indoor trampoline center.

The verdict?  Two thumbs up.  

The kids loved it.  Especially the dodgeball arena and the foam pit.  The camera on my phone didn't like the lighting so much, but provided some cool effects like this:

We paid for just 60 minutes of jumping, which was just right for us.  We left with all the kids looking or feeling like this,

Ha, ha, ha.  This girl sure knows how to wear herself out.  I decided that we all needed a pick-me-up so we went in search of a treat and found this.

Isn't that the best logo ever?  Ice * Custard * Happiness

And, this place was great.  We've had custard several times since moving here (Mr. D's Custard, Nielsen's Custard, Freddy's Custard, and now Rita's -- it's a popular treat).  But with the combination of Italian Ice . . . it was simply divine!  I ordered a Blentini -- layers of vanilla custard and mango Italian ice.  Conner got the Swedish Fish Italian Ice.  And both Payton and Anna ordered vanilla custard.  Anna took one bite and promptly declared that she hated it because it didn't taste like vanilla and then whined about it all the way out to the car.  Oh how quickly she turns into a monster when she is tired and/or hot.

So we went to the park!  The weather is really nice these days and we need to take advantage of it before the days get too hot.  Anna joined in on a game of drip-drip-splash (a version of duck-duck-goose that replaces patting heads around the circle with pouring water on heads from a water bottle).  Hey, if it means she isn't grumpy-hot anymore, I'm all for it!

Later, for dinner:  Beef fried rice, veggies, strawberries, wedge salad with Asian dressing

Then for Family Home Evening we did this lesson.  It's intended to be an Easter countdown, but we just go through the whole thing (12 eggs) in one sitting.  I put it together a year or two ago and now we just keep the eggs inside our box of easter decorations and pull it out for an automatic FHE lesson.

FHE Treat.  Super simple bird nests.  Melt 3 Tbsp butter, stir in 4 cups mini marshmallows, and add 1 bag of crunchy chow mein noodles.  Shape into nests.  Prepare to get sticky.

As we ate our treats and watched a BYU basketball game I taught Anna how to massage my feet.  Oh boy, this girl is hired!  And she loved doing it too.  I call this a win-win.

this week according to my iPhone

On Monday, Anna lost a tooth at school.  For a 1st grader, losing a tooth at school is like, the coolest thing ever.  Because you get this awesome little tooth necklace to carry your tooth home in.  She was soooo excited about it.  So excited, that she started jumping on the trampoline while wearing the necklace.  You can guess what happened next -- the tooth popped out of it's case and was lost.  Cue: wailing and tears.

We consoled her and told her that if she wrote a note to the tooth fairy it would be okay.  And sure enough, she had a dollar under her pillow when she woke up the next morning.  After school that day she again went outside to jump on the trampoline (her favorite post-homework activity).  Next thing I know Anna comes running into the house screaming, "I found my tooth! I found my tooth!"  What the  . . . .?  How in the world, I'll never know, but she found that stinkin' tooth on the cement underneath the trampoline!

Conner had a piano recital and received a medal for that "Superior with Honors" ranking he snagged at the Junior Festival.  I don't know who was more excited about it . . . . Conner or Payton.  

Speaking of piano lessons . . . . here we are hanging out in the van during Conner's piano lesson.  The kids do their homework.  I read.  And sometimes nap for a few minutes.  (This is a post-nap photo).  Annnnd, I'm loving the Dblcam iphone app -- it simultaneously takes a photo from your front and rear cameras and pieces them together.  Lots of creative potential.

It was Nevada Reading Week.  Payton's teacher called our home to "catch him reading."  While on the phone he read a few paragraphs from The Prisoner of Azkaban for her.

I'm doing a few photography assignments for the company Scott works for.  This particular address sent me way out to the edge of civilization. Hello! hello! hello!

Then I went shopping (40% everything at Gap) and scored these 2 dresses!  Love them both, but the blue one was a stunner.  I can already picture myself wearing it to a sunset dinner . . . . We're just 4 weeks away from Kauai!

After an early morning workout with Kauai in my sights.  I've been at it for a month already -- I love the motivation of an upcoming trip to keep me focused and on track.  While I'd love to lose those holiday pounds that have accumulated in my belly (pants are a little tight), my main goal is to tone and reduce the jiggle. :)  I alternate each day between 20-30 minutes on the elliptical and Jillian Michaels 30 Day Shred .

My favorite #thebrownswalktoschool photo so far.  I set my phone on the ground and used the TimerCam self-timer camera app.

An amazing sunset on Friday night as we drove up to the temple.  It had been a windy day so there was a lot of dust in the air, perfect for creating a hazy sunset glow.

And, outside the Las Vegas Temple after our session.  What's so cool is that it looks just like the Portland temple!  Just replace the palm trees with Douglas Fir and Flowering Cherry trees.  And the layout inside is mostly the same (although a little bit smaller).  It felt like we were at home.  :)

I woke up Saturday morning to a little girl at my bedside holding a plate of warm homemade donuts.  Scott is a keeper.

We kicked off Spring Break with a family movie -- The Great and Powerful Oz.  We all really liked it!

After the movie I treated everyone to Dairy Queen.  I had a debt to pay. Two weeks ago we frantically ran through the house getting ready for Conner's piano recital, scarfing down dinner, Scott made it home just in time, and I yelled at everyone to get into the car so we could go.  Scott drove and half-way there I opened the calendar on my phone (to check the address) only to discover that we were one. week. early.  Doh!  We drove straight to McDonald's for ice cream cones on Mom, but their ice cream machine was broken (wha?).  Today I was finally able to pay up.

bye-bye Google Reader

So google reader is going away in a few months.  Boo!

I'm playing around and trying to figure out where my new blog-reading home will be.  I've been trying out Feedly for the past week or so -- getting a feel for how it works.  So far, so good.

Bloglovin looks like another good option.  So I'm testing it as well before I make my final decision.  

Which reader are you going to use?

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sunday thoughts: daughters of God

Anna and I were twins at church last week.  We didn't plan it.  Our skirts just happened to be the only "green" church dress items in our closets.

Last Sunday I also got to teach the lesson in Relief Society.  It focused on the truth that we are all created in the image of God and we are all his sons and daughters.

The Spirit itself beareth witness with our spirit, that we are the children of God. -- Romans 8:16

If we live faithfully, we have the potential to become just like Him.

"I believe that we are sons and daughters of God, and that He has bestowed upon us the capacity for infinite wisdom and knowledge, because He has given us a portion of Himself."  -Lorenzo Snow

Love that . . . we have a portion of Him inside each of us, just as Anna has a piece of me inside of her.

What a humbling and empowering truth to know that we are daughters of God.  That we are created in His image.  He loves us eternally.  And we have the potential to become like Him someday.  It is awe-inspiring to think of who we really are and what we can accomplish!    

I know my potential. I know my strengths. I know I belong.  I know my eternal value.  We are daughters of our Heavenly Father who loves us, and we love Him.  

This is something that lifts me up, encourages me, and fills me with love, peace, and purpose every day.  I hope it does for you too!

the power of moms

Hello, again.  I feel like I needed to say that.  Hello!  This has been one of those weeks with a long to-do list and no matter how busily I'm working, nothing seems to get checked off.  {sigh}  Runnin' round in circles, I tell ya.

Last week when I did have a few spare moments -- actually, while I was paying my bills -- I listened to a podcast.  Do you ever listen to podcasts?  I think this might have been my first.  I get an e-newsletter from The Power of Moms (a great site chock full of wonderful mom sharing & learning) and this newsletter was titled: "Lonely? Here's How to Connect With Other Moms."  As I'm making efforts to be friendly and getting to know people, I thought a few more insights and ideas would be great.

It was a great podcast.  Two moms, chatting about a topic that everyone can relate too, and offering some great ideas, advice, and encouragement.  A few of my favorite thoughts:

• It can take up to 5 visits with a new mom/friend to get past the superficial topics of conversation.  The "small talk".  Yep, it definitely takes time.  So give it some time.
• Accept invitations -- even if it doesn't seem like the perfect fit initially (your kids' ages don't match up - different stage of life - an unfamiliar activity).  Within the first few weeks in our new ward I was invited to a book club.  Which is something I never would have thought about doing before.  But I'm so glad I accepted the invitation because it has helped me to get to know some ladies, and it forces me to carve out some much-needed time for reading!
• Decide that this is important.  Acknowledge that you are feeling lonely and figure out what works for you.  Make something happen.
• Put yourself in situations to meet other people.  Take that scary step to reach out. Make the effort to put together or join a group.

So great.  It felt like I was chatting with a couple like-minded, down to earth moms like me.  And they gave lots of specific ideas on how/where to meet new people.  You should check it out.  Listen HERE.

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AND . . . 

I'm super excited because The Power of Moms is coming to Las Vegas to put on a premium retreat next month . . . . and I am going!

photos via Power of Moms

What is a The Power of Moms retreat?  I don't know because I've never been!  :)  But, the website gives the details HERE.  And it looks pretty awesome.

There is a gathering on Friday night.  And dessert, of course.  Then a bunch of learning on Saturday (9am to 5pm, lunch included).  There are presentations:  Taking care of the "me" in mom - finding joy, maintaining balance, being your best self . . . Family Systems - chores, discipline, family identity . . . . and Making great ideas into reality.  And there are small group discussions to build on topics addressed by speakers.

The retreat is held in a home so registration is limited to 60.  (I kinda imagine it is like Time Out for Women but on a smaller, more personal level.)

photo via Power of Moms

What I love about The Power of Moms is their underlying theme of being "deliberate mothers."  I love that.  Mothers with a purpose, motivation, and goal in sight.

So if you or any of your friends live in the Vegas area, pass this info along and I might see you there!

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A couple Power of Moms articles that caught my eye recently:

Tried and True Road Trip Tips -- I've done big solo road trips with the kids before.  And I'll be doing it again this summer.  My kids are great travelers but I can always use a few new tricks up my sleeve.

A Deliberate Mother's Guide to a more Christ-Centered Easter -- lots of little ideas.  I LOVE that they do the Easter Bunny on Saturday -- we do too!  We call it Bunny Day and it is the best.

When I'm a Grandma . . . -- About complimenting other mothers on their well-behaved / cute / kind children.  Don't wait until you're a grandma . . .start now!

one year later

Last Saturday, Payton was invited to a birthday at the park.  We found the picnic table where the kids were gathering for the party, and then Anna and I walked down to the play structure to hang out until the party was over.  Anna quickly ran to the swings.  I walked toward a picnic bench and sat down. As I looked up to admire the beautiful spring blossoms on the tree above it hit me . . . .

I was sitting in this exact spot, on this exact day, one year ago.  March 9, 2012.  

And, one year ago I had even thought to take a picture of the tree.

March 9th -- It was our first day in Nevada.  We had arrived on March 8th (by car and by plane).  We slept in our apartment.  The next morning we woke up, ate breakfast, and got ready for the day.  Scott went off to work and I was alone with the kids.  We went to the grocery store and then drove to the park.  This park.  And I sat on the very same bench.

Talk about goosebumps.  This time (2013) I sat there and thought back to that day . . . one year ago. Remembering how lost I felt and in a daze.  Taking it one step at a time.  Everything was just so surreal.

On our Big Move anniversary I told the kids, "hey, guess what?!  Did you know that today we have lived in Nevada for one. whole. year?"

Payton squealed "Yay!" and started doing his hip-shaking dance.  I laughed and asked him, "why are you dancing?"  He replied, "Because we survived!"

Conner agreed, "We survived the heat!"  And Anna moped, "I miss Oregon, and I miss my friends."

Well, there you go.

This week I flipped through my photos from our last day and our first day (March 8-9) and found so many interesting similarities (and differences) between what we were doing then and now.  So I thought I would share a little comparison.  Life . . . one year later.

2012 // Saying good-bye to our house.  And it is SUNNY in Oregon! (I remember Paige telling me that the nice weather that day was Oregon's way of leaving me with good memories)

2013 // Walking to school.  And it is RAINY in Nevada!

2012 // Crocus blooming in my front flowerbed

2013 // Daffodils in my kitchen.  I was soooo happy to find these at the grocery store.  A little tender mercy . . . daffodils grew everywhere in Oregon.

2012 // Our backyard.  4 years in that house and a lot of work.  HERE are some photos taken when everything was blooming

2013 // Our backyard.  Lots of work ahead of us.

2012 // An empty family room and kitchen -- all moved out.  Remember when I had a red kitchen?

2013 // An empty family room with a new paint job!  My current kitchen will not be painted red.

2012 // Making our way through PDX with a hobbling Anna.  Thanks to a badly sprained ankle she was wearing a cast under her black sock.  She was a very good sport with all the traveling.  

2013 // Running, sliding, jumping, and swinging at the park.

2012 // Our first breakfast in our new apartment.  Scott had gone to the grocery store for cereal and milk that morning.  And we can't forget to point out the awesome bachelor pad rental furniture.

2013 // Breakfast date at Jamba Juice with Payton.  Just because.

2012 // We played at the park on our first day.  And the kids loved it.

2013 // All 3 kids playing Wii together, in our home, and loving it.

2012 // Me then.  Polka dots.  Ready to run to Anna's kindergarten class for her good-bye party.

2013 // Me now.  All black.  Hanging out at home after church.

Ahh, and today we are here.  Life is so different from one year ago.  Things are getting better and better each day.

I still miss Oregon . . . a lot.  And I think about my friends every single day.  But I know that we'll be in each others' lives for a long time - forever. ;)  I'm excited to spend a few days with them in June when we swing through the state! {insert happy dance}

My blog friend, Kim, also went through a big move (Iowa to Texas) a few months before we did.  And so she had her one-year anniversary a few months before we did.  She posted something on Facebook that day and I copied it down, with the intention of saving it for this day:

Sometimes it is hard to move on, but we must. And moving on doesn't mean forgetting friendships, forcing memories to fade. It means opening our hearts to even more happiness and more experiences....good things keep on coming.

Isn't that perfect?  At the time I first read it, though, I wasn't ready to move on.  I was fighting it.  But now I understand that it's a necessary part of life & change.  And like the quote says, it doesn't mean forgetting friendships & memories but opening our hearts to more.

I am feeling good.  I almost feel like I needed that one year mark - I needed to cross that milestone - so I could settle down and start to gel with what we have going on here.  Still, I'm not too pleased at the fact that we're going to hit 90 today (in March)! -- I don't think I'll get used to the heat -- I guess I'll just have to sweat, stink, and smile through it!

One more tidbit . . . this month in my book club we read A Winter Dream.  It's a modern day re-telling of the Bible story of Joseph who is sold into Egypt by his 11 jealous brothers.  My favorite part of the book came in the epilogue.  The main character, Joseph, shares a letter that his father had given him at his college graduation.  This letter had guided him through his life.  Some excerpts:

Always, always remember that --- Adversity is not a detour. It is part of the path.

Your challenges, if you'll let them, will become your greatest allies. Mountains can crush or raise you, depending on which side of the mountain you choose to stand on. All history bears out that the great, those who have changed the world, have all suffered great challenges. And more times than not, it's precisely those challenges that, in God's time, lead to triumph.

Abhor victimhood. Denounce entitlement. Neither are gifts, rather cages to damn the soul. Everyone who has walked this earth is a victim of injustice. Everyone.

Most of all, do not be too quick to denounce your sufferings. The difficult road you are called to walk may, in fact, be your only path to success.

Again, perfect.  I just loved that.

Thank you for making it to the end of a very long post.  And thank you for coming with me on this journey the past year.

flourish

Recently I got a chance to "pretend" to be a graphic designer.  My mom is opening up a place for classes and events and she asked me to do her branding.  It is called "Flourish" and this is what I came up with.

The tagline "find your happy" seemed to fit so well because one of my mom's favorite sayings is "happy day".  And she is always trying to inspire and uplift others to find happiness in their lives.

In addition to the logo, I've helped here and there with things like

• Blog and Facebook page set-up
• Invitations that can be used for events and classes
• and made 200 cupcake toppers

Tonight is her big open house and I wish her lots of luck in her new big dream!  She is definitely a dreamer -- always thinking, planning, and imagining the next big thing.  And she always pulls it off beautifully.  Remember the spring event last year with Mindy Gledhill?  And the Garden party two years before that?

Flourish is going to be wonderful.

campus photography walk

I just realized that aside from Brigham Young University, I don't think I have ever stepped foot on another college campus.  It's one of those "huh" moments.  Now, there's a chance I made my way onto California State University Stanislaus (in Turlock, CA) for something or other, but I really can't pull from my mind any other college campus that I have visited.  Oh, I guess there's Portland State University -- but it's located in downtown Portland so I had to walk through it to get to the next block.

Anyway, I always love walking around BYU campus.  One of my favorite things are the sculptures and art pieces -- there's the Brigham Young and Karl G. Maeser statues, the Tree of Wisdom, the giant round rock that bears no explanation, and of course the Museum of Art garden.

When we had some extra time at Conner's Junior Festival last week I decided that we should walk around the University of Nevada Las Vegas campus a little bit.  To check out the art and get a feeling for the campus, even if we didn't go very far.  Plus it made for a fun little photography walk.

UNLV's mascot is the Rebels

This thing kinda creeps me out.  It reminds me of The Lord of the Rings and the Two Towers.  Big, black, and ominous . . . . minus the orcs.

Hey -- I was there too!

Do you have a college campus nearby?  Have you checked out the campus art?

junior music festival

Conner played in his first junior festival and as you can see . . . Superior with Honors . . . he did great!

We have never participated in a festival before (let alone, even heard of them).  Because Conner's teacher is a member of the Las Vegas music teacher's association, her students get to participate.  For the past few months he has been working on fine-tuning the 2 pieces he was going to play at festival.

Here's a little peek into our day:  We showed up at the UNLV campus and followed the signs

Then upstairs to our assigned classroom.  According to the schedule sheet we had a 5 minute time slot.

The hallway was a busy, busy place with families & students.  Volunteers watched the doors, letting people in and out at the appropriate times.

Conner and I made our way in to the empty classroom.  There was a piano.  A few chairs.  Seated at a table facing the piano was the judge and an assistant (for paperwork).  We only had to wait a moment and it was go time!  Conner introduced himself, bowed, and took his seat at the piano.  

The rules were pretty strict -- no clapping in between pieces (only at the end).  No videotaping.  No flash photography.  I casually took these photos with my iphone while it sat in my lap.  I don't think I was breaking any rules, but I didn't want to be conspicuous.

Soon he was done, and after another bow we made our way out of the room.  He had played his songs perfectly!  One minor note slip, but it was barely noticeable.

Then it was waiting time -- it would take about 20 minutes before we could pick up his music and certificate.  So we decided to walk around campus a bit and get some photos.

I'll have you know that every single Sunday I get a comment from somebody at church on how cute Conner is, or well-mannered, or great in class, or how he knows the scriptures so well, or how reverently he passes the sacrament . . . .  Every single Sunday.  Today was no exception.  It makes for a pretty proud mama.

Then we made our way back inside to get his things

And we were thrilled to see his ranking!

We were told that "Superior with Honors" is the highest ranking you can get.  Way to go, Conner!

It was a very good experience.  I like that it is not a competition -- the kids are not being judged against each other.  They are only being evaluated against themselves.  So it is a great opportunity to practice performing while at the same time getting some constructive feedback.

Here is a video I shot at home of his two piano pieces.  You'll notice he's playing on the keyboard (which sounds great).  Our piano is still horribly out of tune from sitting in storage for 7 months and enduring 2 moves.  I'm working on getting that remedied right now.

currently: march 6th

Cleaning the pool.  I took care of this job on Monday.  I am the pool guy.  Apparently we are in the minority on this one.  Growing up my mom or brothers always cleaned the pool.  Today, my parents still clean their own pool.  It would never cross my mind to hire a pool guy.  Sure it's a job that takes time, but it's simple enough to do.  Plus, we've got children (i.e. slave labor).  In this day and age our kids need more opportunities to work.  Not fewer.

Painting like mad woman. I should be doing that right now, but I decided to take a short break this morning before going back at it. When I'm done the family room is going to look marvelous!

Walking to school and loving the weather.  It was a gorgeous morning today.  Sunny.  More than sunny, though . . . . golden.  (Or maybe that was simply the view behind my sunglasses).  Windy too, which is typical for the spring here (March-April)

Enjoying the spring blossoms.  I'm glad we have neighbors on our street who planted flowering plum trees for us all to enjoy. 

Contemplating a big anniversary that is coming up this week.  And getting a little teary about it.

Dreaming of beautiful plants in my yard . . . . someday.  For now we are spending time each Saturday ripping out the dead / ugly ones.  The yard needs a complete overhaul.  With spring upon us I find myself missing my hydrangea bushes, tulips, daffodils, my lilac tree, blueberry plants, lavender, the spring crocus (which should be blooming right now), and peonies.  Oh, the peonies!

I think that picking up a bouquet of flowers from the grocery store is going to be a regular occurrence.