Pictures have incredible power. They bring us back to moments in time in a way that heightens our memories -- not just the moment visualized in the photo, but also the circumstances around it, the feelings towards the people we were with, our senses (tastes, smells, touch), our emotions that day .... They remind us of things we might have forgotten. Such an incredible gift!
Even though my kids were teenagers when my mom passed I still worried that memories might slip away too easily. For the funeral we gathered nearly 200 photos of my mom and I knew right away that I wanted to compile a photo album for each of my kids (and each grandchild) so that through photos, they could keep her memory - the feeling of Grammer - fresh in their minds.
This Christmas I did just that.
I used Chatbooks to make these small 6x6 photobooks. I have used the Chatbooks app for a long time to compile my Instagram photos into books. For this project I went to their website and created a custom book. I chose the Rifle Paper Co. cover art because it just felt like mom. Doesn't it?
Each book starts with this cover page
Grammer Teresa loves a lot of things
She LOVES Papa Dan. She loves being a mom to her 5 kids -- your aunt Shannon and uncles Sam, Kent, Denver, and Mason.
Grammer loves fall leaves and spring flowers and Christmas traditions and Easter egg hunts and Thanksgiving competitions and 4th of July fireworks.
She loves pretty things, and antique things, and old French things. Grammer loves planning parties, throwing parties, and thinking about any and all reasons to celebrate.
Grammer loves gardening, flowers, and working outside. She loves painting, and projects, and creating a beautiful home.
Grammer loves the temple and Jesus Christ. She loves missionaries and temple weddings and choosing the right.
Grandma loves adventures, exploring, and trying new things.
She loves writing on her blog, taking pictures, and finding a HAPPY DAY everyday.
Grammer loves sending happy mail, hanging happy day banners, and making people feel special & loved.
Grammer Teresa loves a lot of things.
But she really, really loves being your Grammer.
She loves you . . . . . your stories, your drawings & notes, your cute face, your smell, your squishy hugs, your ideas & dreams . . .
. . . . and most of all she loves you because you are KIND.
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I made a different set of photobooks for each family. For the most part, all photobooks included the same photos of my mom. But each family's edition included a gathering of pictures that were specific to them -- pictures of their kids with Grammer. Here is a look at what some of the pages looked like for our family . . .
In the back of the book I created several blank "MEMORIES" pages. I hope the kids use them to write down their memories of Grammer.
All 13 grandchildren have their own personal copy of this book. My kids keep theirs on a shelf or nightstand in their rooms. In my heart, I hope that they pull it out from time to time and look at the photos. I hope that the littlest ones flip through their photo book and are as familiar with her face and the stories (told, remembered, or imagined) as they are with the pages of any other storybook on their shelves.
The grandkids range in age from 2 - 17, with 2 more on the way this year. My heart hurts a little for the youngest of the grandkids who will not have tangible memories of their amazing, loving, beautiful grandma. I sure hope that these photos along with the stories that their parents tell will help to keep her memory alive for them.
My grandpa Rene passed away when I was 3 years old. Remarkably, I actually have 2 very small memories of him. Because of the stories my grandma Margaret, my dad, his siblings, and my mom told about him . . . I truly feel like I know him. I have always loved having that feeling.
Anyone else bawl in the theater when they said this line at the end of the movie?